Working on a long lost friendship

As I try to recapture friendships from years past, I have felt many times that I need to create a good relationship with everyone, of course there are some people that very often you just cannot get along with no matter what you do. alot of prejudice and hate plays into this. there are people who I have known for years but never really cared to get involved with. but then I never really took the time to get to really know that person.
and this sort of thing goes on with all people of every background. as americans we don't trust one another, we will not look each other in the eye. we are afraid to greet one another in a friendly manner, what is wrong with americans, and no matter where we go a hostile shield goes up when we try to meet a person, this is especially true in the african american community. there is so much hostility in black america that it is unreal. I would just wish that americans in general would stop all of this walking around with chips on their shoulder. what is it that we must prove. there is alot of fight shows on television, and americans are feeding into this like a magnet. what are we trying to prove. why are we trying to prove something. I would like to like in a world where this is peace love and harmony.
but then again this is america, there is no such thing in america. I am always hearing everywhere I go about who is going to whip whose behind. F-this, F-that, that's all I hear anymore. ridiculous. just ridiculous,